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Abandonment wound in men.

Abandonment wound in men.

Do you ever feel an inexplicable fear of being left, betrayed, or alone? If so, you're not alone. I can resonate deeply with this sentiment, as I carry a profound abandonment wound close to my heart. But here's the truth – we all have one. No one has sailed through...

Impact vs Intent.  How mens Behaviour can effect women.

Impact vs Intent. How mens Behaviour can effect women.

  This triggers the hell outta me. Impact vs intent. I was scared shitless when I first heard this term.  I didn't know how to interpret it. It made me feel like my intent didn’t matter.  I felt that if my words hurt you, you need to own your feelings around that...

How Men’s pain can be turned into personal power.

How Men’s pain can be turned into personal power.

Pain = Personal Power. This is just a fact of life, and not an easy one to embrace. We all go through life acquiring what I will call emotional injuries. It's just the human experience, it's not wrong or right, it just is. From childhood, our 20’s, 30’s and beyond,...

Top 5 books I think every man should read

Top 5 books I think every man should read

I have never been what I would call a "reader".  I do enjoy reading books, it just takes me a while to get through them.  On my journey of self-discovery, books have played a big part in my steps of growth.  Over the years, people have said to me " oh you should read...

Why every man should be in a men’s group

Why every man should be in a men’s group

Without a doubt, most people are asking themselves, what is a men's group? I was one of those men. December 2018 was the first time I had heard of a men's group. What is it? It is a place where men come together to help each other rise up to their potential. It is a...

How a heart attack brought me to mens work

How a heart attack brought me to mens work

  This post was originally posted on Medium ( have a look I have a few writings there ) in January 2018.  At the time I did not have this website, but now I feel it appropriate to share here too. Original post title   Heart attack at age 41-the best thing...

It’s Never to Late to Coach Full Time

It’s Never to Late to Coach Full Time

Wow, here we go! Brandonarcher.com is live.  It took me a while to get to this point but I am excited to share it with everyone. There is so much I want to say, to share about my journey to this point in the coaching world....